Facts
To the wedding guests of Xiao Hua (Jezebel) Li and Da Bo (Kristopher) Hom:

As you may have noticed, I am not attending the wedding of my son, Kristopher, and that woman.  Because of that woman, my baby has cut me out of his life.  I want you all to know that I deeply love my son Kris, but that JEZEBEL WOMAN IS A SKANK.

Even when they started dating, Jezebel showed me total disrespect.  Kris brought Jezebel to visit me in downtown Menlo Park.  I took them both to this fancy French restaurant off Middlefield.  I was so excited to meet the new love of Kris' life.

When I saw them come through the door, I immediately ran to give Kris a hug.  I then held my arms open to Jezebel to embrace her, but she actually turned around and ignored me!  She goes and whispers to Kris, "Wow, THAT'S your mom?  I thought that was your fat grandma that you tell me about."

I pretended not to hear it, but I was so hurt.  I excused myself to the restroom, opened a stall, sat down on the toilet, and cried my eyes out.  How could my son let her say such things to me!

The lunch did not get any better.  Any time I tried talking to her, she would pretend she didn't hear me.  She would keep complaining to Kris how we should have gone to a fancier restaurant.  This was the restaurant that my late husband and I would always take Kris when he was a young boy!  And you know what Kris said?  Kris agreed with Jezebel!  He said, "Yeah, this place is a dump.  We'll get some better food later."  HEARTBREAK!

Later on, my daughter told me of how Jezebel treated Kris.  My daughter, Latoya, and her husband, Pierre, went to visit Kris at his house.  Latoya told me that when Jezebel met her husband, she gave him a big hug and then grabbed his rear!

Here's part of the email from Latoya:

"MOM!

I was upstairs with Pierre when I heard Kris and Jezebel arguing.  Jezebel was telling Kris how worthless he is.  She said that she only married him for his money, and he didn't even have much of that anymore.  I then heard a big crash and then someone crying.  I was so scared that Kris had hit Jezebel, but when I got downstairs, the lamp was broken and Kris was crying in the corner.

I tried to comfort him but he just pushed me away.  He said that the lamp accidentally fell and hit him across the face.  Yeah right.

And Mom, I think Jezebel also makes Kris pluck his eyebrows.  I heard her say that his eyebrows were too bushy.  She's emasculating him!  I think he's just her trophy husband.  Mom, I can't stand her!"

So as you can see, this woman is not right for Kris.  I cannot support this marriage.  My heart feels ripped out from me to know that Kris has cut me out of his life because of this woman.  I don't think I will ever be happy again.